Love is and is not

Are we distant or are we not? that blank look we both give each-other makes me think so. The love is still there but the spite, hate and dislike shines through. Is this love? I Googled the definition of "love" curious on what the meaning of love is. One meaning is "feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to (someone)." but my definition of love differs, love is something that cannot be replaced, love is doing things for no reason just because you can, love is taking someones baggage and carrying it as your own, love is showing someone you care about them without needed recognition, love is forgiving someone even when they don't deserve to be forgiven. Now love is NOT doing things out of spite to get back at the other person, love is not doing things to hurt the other person, love is not doing things just to see how they react and love is not spite, hate or anger. 


Love is giving, love is happiness, love is forgiveness.